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Love and longing in a
time of migration



A still from the digital film: Matrimonials.com

In a well-received and warm comedy, the directors of Matrimonials.com introduce us to the desperate plight
of desi singles in America, writes
Rahul Sagar

All tragedies are finished by a death,
All comedies are ended by a marriage.

Lord Byron, Don Juan, III. 9



Some marriages are made in heaven and others, as the directors of Matrimonials.com inform us, are made online. Befittingly, both directors of this romantic comedy are software engineers and inform us that 'they were brought up in India on a steady diet of academic, cricket and movies'. Now, in a fresh, funny look at the quirkier side of the Indian expatriate success story, Raj Nidimoru and Krishna 'DK' Dararakothapalli bring to our attention that omnipresent NRI dilemma: desi singleness.

Matrimonials.com tells the story of two young NRI bachelors, Ajay and Raghu. Although successful and well-established, their lives are ruled by the monotony of daily schedules (at work Ajay and Raghu plot obsessively about how to do nothing till lunch) and late night TV (having lost the remote, they spend three nights in a row watching a woman scientifically colour her hair), and are in constant danger of getting lost in mass-cooked Taco Bell oblivion. Needless to say, they also drive a Sports Utility Vehicle (SUV) that badge of desi-techie pride.

In the midst of this anomie, Ajay and Raghu undertake a brilliant statistical analysis of the 'singleness dilemma' that NRI's face. Dividing the available women into American Born Confused Desis (ABCDs) and Desis Confused By America (DCBA) they proceed to tabulate the number of available desi women in America (The answer incidentally is one in a hundred). Raghu decides to solve the situation by posting an advertisement on an online matrimonials website. His initial effort prompts Ajay to hilariously compare his online proposal to a job application (IT Engineer, working for four years…). While Raghu waits hopefully for thousands of replies, Ajay spends his time conversing with a girl who he of course insists is a 'friend and nothing else' much to Raghu's amusement.

We are also simultaneously introduced to Aarti and Divya, two ABCD best friends who also happen to be facing the marital gallows. Divya in particular is being pressured by her 'family' into marriage and so proceeds to log onto the matrimonials.com website in search of a suitable hubby. The audience is eventually dragged along with her to a series of 'arranged meetings'. In a series of snapshots we are made to gladly suffer the hilarious antics of the prospective grooms. These include one caste-spurned lover, a failed comic, a quiet boring chap, another obsessed with the dollar cost of everything, one self-assured fool, and a guy who is an aunt's, sister's, uncle's brother's son.

Needless to say, in fairytale fashion Raghu eventually visits Chicago (after dragging Ajay along because Ajay's girlfriend also lives in Chicago) in order to meet the person who has responded to his ad. Along the way he suffers a crisis of confidence in the happiness that such an 'arranged marriage' would provide. After some uninspiring dialogue about life, love and longing we are mercifully allowed to return to lighter stuff as Raghu finally decides to hold out for a dreamier, romantic alternative. He nevertheless manages to convince Ajay into proposing to the 'friend but nothing more'. The plan ultimately works, but not without a hilarious detour through a sequence that involves a phone booth at a rest stop, an answering machine and an out-of-key AR Rehman tune.

*** SPOILER ALERT ***
The directors cleverly play on the audience's expectation in the final, closing moments of the plot. For example, we are led to believe that Ajay's girlfriend is actually the same woman who Raghu is supposed to marry. Later we also realise that Ajay's girlfriend is Divya's best friend - Aarti. Raghu and Divya finally hook up after intermittently glancing toward one another in an elevator (where they had both gone to turn down prospective partners). A truly wonderful moment, the scene hints at the enormous warmth and sensitivity of the directors, quite apart from their skill at tugging on the heartstrings after an hour of relentless comedy.
*** SPOILER ALERT ***


In a more critical vein,
Matrimonials.com is a mildly exaggerated film that blanches at being entirely realistic in its description of the expatriate situation. One clear deficiency is the lack of a truly bilingual dialogue. This often results in the two actresses engaging in soul-searching monologues haltingly delivered in Hindi. Consequently, there are moments of relief for both cast and audience when the women suddenly break into their heavily accented English, making the tone and pitch of the dialogue meet the demands of the moment.

Further, desi singleness abroad often has much more to do with the pathological inability of desis to stop working 24/7, not to mention a strong anti-social streak that encourages comfort in one's own kind. This aspect is left entirely unattended. Finally, one must ask where in America are migrant employees allowed to bide time in office and leave at the dot of five? The directors themselves, for example, were unable to make it to the film festival because their firm would not give them leave.

Pedantic criticism apart, Matrimonials.com is a deeply enjoyable film that succeeded in provoking mirth through some unconventional means including a random list of marriage jokes that preceded the opening credits. As such the film has fulfilled the promise of digital by giving the directors a chance to tell a unique story that resonates with some of experiences of a wide, disconnected diaspora (the film is a veritable chest of 'insider' expat jokes). A vast improvement over disastrous NRI produce like
Inscrutable Americans, it is certainly the best surprise flick at the Festival.



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